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anonymous submitted: I’m so depressed I’m literally thinking about suicide even though I have s lot of doubts about it. I’m fat. I’m ugly people call me ugly . All my friends look better then me and have boyfriends. I feel so alone . I want to just die already
Do you really want to die? Or do you just think you want to die? I’m sure you’re not sad all the time, and if you kill yourself, it’s just going to hurt everyone around you. You have to base your happiness off of yourself, not off of what everyone else is and what everyone else has. It’s not fair to you if you think like that. You have to fight this big monster that is the depression. And change how you think about yourself. Because that’s just toxic if you’re feeding thoughts into your mind constantly like ‘I’m fat’ or ‘I’m ugly’.
I'm so depressed. I want to kill myself I'm fat and ugly and people admit it to me I been through so much in my life , And I'm so young. Im such a happy person in school but when I come home I'm back to reality idk what to do I hate myselfKilling yourself is going to get you nowhere. You have to fight. Sure, you just gave me a bunch of reasons as to why you’re depressed, but what are the reasons why you’re happy? Don’t take the shortcut and say ‘nothing’, because no one is sad 100% of the time. Everyone has their high moments. So really think and think of the things that make you happy. And once you’ve got those, when you feel sad, do those things.
hi.. dont really know how to start. I dont feel good anymore. I used to be so happy but then i just started thinking too deeply and i think i thought myself into depression. theres not one thing i like about myself, and everything around me seems so dull. im insecure beyond being insecure and have tried throwing up after meals, starving, but im not that strong and i hate myself for it. I cut, but on my hip so no one can see. I dont want help (therapy) because i feel that i deserve all this.You don’t deserve this, and you didn’t give yourself depression. Don’t leave something that big on your chest because it just makes you feel worse. I can’t change your mind, and I can’t make you get help. Only you can change how you feel about yourself. You can tell yourself that you’re beautiful, and YOU can be the one to fight fight fight your hardest to not cut. You don’t deserve to feel like this, no one does, and if that’s what stopping you from getting help, then you need to try really really hard to get those toxic ideas out of your head.
i have a best friend (he's a guy) & we used to be sooo close. well we're still close now but not as close as we used to be.. now he has got some other girls he likes to hang out with and it really hurts me because of 2 reasons: 1) i dont want to be replaced 2) i think i have some feelings for him. these girls are getting on my nerves because they're acting 'sweetly' around him & its just... yuck. what should i do, i dont want to lose him :(The thing about getting feelings with a friend is that they can’t be taken back. Once you announce them, or try to move forward on them, it can make or break the relationship. Trust me, I’ve been there. Once you say it, there is a risk of things being super weird from then on in. Or, if he feels the same way, things could go for the better. But you can’t read his mind, so it’s up to you whether you want to take the chance or not.
If you feel that the relationship could be strong enough to last even if he doesn’t like you back, then maybe it’s best for you to tell him. But sometimes it’s also best to keep quiet and make the feelings fade before they come too strong. I don’t really know what to say, it’s up to you. I can’t really give good advice on this if I don’t know the relationship.
In terms of staying close and not wanting to loose him, don’t push him on anything. Don’t become clingy, because that will terrify him. Just stay cool and just be his friend, and if you two are really meant to be friends, then he’ll come to you. If you have the guts, maybe you should consider telling him that you feel you’re being replaced. But don’t push him, or you’ll just push him farther away.
Okay. So recently. i started feeling sad. I don't know why. im insecure and yep. I'm happy on the outside. and most of my friends don't know what my inner thoughts are. Your worthless, no one likes you, no one would care if you are gone, you don't fit in. then, my grandma died. and I don't know. now I'm just empty. I have good days and bad days. but i always put a smile on my face from my friends, but inside I'm hurting. I don't want to worry my friends. I don't know what to do!Your grandma passing away was probably what triggered all of this. But I want you to think of the sadness as a big monster. Every time you think negative, or don’t bother to get out of bed, or you let yourself become sad, that monster gets bigger and bigger. But then every time you think positively, and you do something that you think you don’t have the emotional strength to do, or you try to make yourself have more good days than bad days, you’re making that monster smaller. It’s all about overcoming this feelings because they don’t own you. YOU are the one who says when you’re happy or not, and don’t listen to the thoughts that your head is saying. None of it’s true. And hey, who really fits in anyways?
this isn't really for me. this is for my friend. i know she does self harm. my friend had almost talked me into telling a teacher. but then she had saw the "asks" on my tumblr before i could delete them. and she then begged for me not to tell. and she even said she was going to throw her blades away. i then look at her blog to see how she is doing. then she had posted to check out another blog and she was going to delete hers. i look and she didn't throw out her blades. help. idk what to do.You have to let her get through this on her own, almost. Make sure she knows that you’re there to support her, but don’t push her into anything because that will just put pressure on her. You can’t push and force someone to get better.
But if it gets worse, you need to tell an adult. Because she might not like you for a while, but it’s for her safety.
so i've talked to you a lot. a few months ago my boyfriend broke up with me because he was 'stressed'. we didn't talk. recently we've exchanged words (not like TALK talked though) and everything he directs at me is so angry and bitter and nasty and hurtful and i still like w/him. months of no communication.. why do i still feel like this? i just hurt all over whenever we don't talk but all that we do talk about is hurtful too. i catch him staring at me with the longing eyes, tho. i'm confused?I think you need to have a talk talk with him. Either that way you ca decide what you’re going to do from here, or you can get closure. Because it sounds to me that you two never completely ended things the right way. Try meeting up with him and having a real talk, and be responsible and mature about it. Don’t be childish and insulting him (and if he does it, ignore it), and don’t be too vulnerable. Stand your ground and protect yourself without coming of standoffish. You two aren’t over each other, and you two definitely need to get up your courage and stop avoiding each other and REALLY talk.
in my life it just seems like everythings all of a sudden going wrong. Last night it got bad. Everyone seemed pissed at me, i had no one to talk to about this. I had this urge to cut, i still do, i cant sleep, i cant concentrate. I cant concentrate on anything besides that. It puts me in tears and it took everything i had not to get my razor. Ive never cut before but these urges are getting unbearable. Please helpI can’t help you with cutting through a computer screen. Go to someone and tell them you need help. Go to a counselor, someone in your family, anyone. It feels a lot better once you tell someone. It’s going to be really stressful and hard at first knowing that other people know your secret, but it does get better because they’re gonna help you through it.
I've got this secret, last year i tried to kill myself. I was in a really dark place, i was self harming and had an eating disorder.I got put in hospital for two weeks. This was 8 months ago, but i'm too scared to tell anyone and I'm also really scared that I'm going backwards.I think you should tell someone that you’re comfortable with so that you can let it go. You’re holding onto what happened and you should move on. Yes, it is a big issue, but you’re alive now and that’s a good thing. And if you’re afraid you’re going backwards, talk to someone and get help.
